♥Love & To Be Loved
Sometimes i wonder, is LOVE necessary?i mean the boyfriend girlfriend kind of love. Some people are able to manage life being single. so you cant tell whether it's necessary or not. What i trying to say here is one can still live a happening life even he's single. I mean, without a significant one, you still have family beyond great, or friends who are always there, right? Yes, true, it would be PERFECT to have a boyfriend or girlfriend cus it's like you have a spiritual ballast. You can have someone to hold dear, to treasure, to cuddle with, to share things with & so on. and you know even if the whole world is turning its back on you, at the very least you still have him/her around.
But then Love cant be forced. Again, if your affection never meant to be yours, he/she will try to shake you off even if you continue to pester him/her. So what's the whole point? If he/she is yours, no matter what you guys are facing, he/she will hold your hands in a firm clasp & will never ever let go! Well, if you do think i'm just boasting here cus i dont know how hard it is to let go of your affection then i'm sorry you're so wrong! I've been hurted before. & you cant imagine how hard i tried to let him go. I had excruciating hard times, BIG TIME. yet i'm so glad that i have my bffs, they helped me to stand up on my feet & here i am, the brand new me, having a complete change of heart! :) And i lighten up hell loads, I get to know more friends, i'm expanding my social life & cest la vie! -Sometimes love comes around, and it knocks you down just get back up when it knocks you down- Keri Hilson. So true aye? Being persistant on something that is already over is not wise, it's hideous torment, mentally & physically; rather, letting go can relieve the suffering, you ll find yourself lighter & happier.
Stereotypically saying, love is not about wanting, possessing or controlling someone; it's about wanting them to be happy. it's about setting them free, let them do whatever they wish to in pursuit of happy life.
Guys and girls, i love you all. Dont torture yourself with craps. Live your life while you can! Having a boyfriend/girlfriend is an extra bonus but then lack of one does not represent life's meaningless right? Find slowly lar. enjoy being single first. Cheerssssssssss SINGLE LIFE! yo!
That's it then.
Until next time.