Saturday, February 12, 2011

♥Happy Valentine Day, loves! :)

As you're growing up and as a result of your different experiences, your perception of love might change. While I was in high school, love is so pure & innocent for me, what we all called 'puppy love'. I like you for who you are, & you like me for who I am, so we're together. Simple as that. Cliche acts like love letters or hold hands would make your heart beats madly & your cheeks blushed. I think that's because we didn't give it much thought, we just go with the flow. We're too young to consider about eternity, future, responsibility or consequences. It doesn't even hurt much during breakup. You cry, you wipe off your tears & you're healed. In fact, you gonna fall in love all over again very soon! :)



While I stepped into college life, things are not as simple as I once knew. Everything, friendship, studies, campus life, & of course loves relationship. That's when lies, betrayals, & all sorts of conflicts come into picture. She's with you for your money; He's with you for your body. Blah blah blah. In a word, he/she's with you FOR A PURPOSE. Too many enticing temptations & lures which make things even more complicated than it already is. So when you're well aware of the risks, you self-destruct to every possible relationship in order to protect yourself from being hurt. Sorry to break your bubbles but this is when you realized that fairytales where the princesses & the princes always get to live happily ever after don't exist. And this is when you get to experience the feeling of heart shattered into pieces. Oh well, SURPRISE! :)


When you love someone because of some solid purposes/requirements, such relationship doesn't last long. Take this as example, you're together with him because he's rich, and he's together with you because you're pretty. That's the reason which keeps both of you together. So what if she found someone richer or he found someone prettier? It doesn't mean anything anymore.


So I think, okay, not every relationship is like that you know. Maybe one is lucky enough to meet someone who truly loves her, appreciate her & is totally loyal. But then again I was told several times by friends around who brokeup that love is not enough. So yeah, even if you love each others, it's still not enough because there are still some other reasons like compatibility of temperament, long distance and so on. GAHHHH. So I guess these pretty much sums up the reason why LOVE GIVE US MIGRAINE IS COMPLICATED.



Well anyhowww, I know I can't predict the future, in fact no one can. So I'll appreciate every moment we're together, and I'll love him as much as I can WHILE I can. Love is all about tolerance instead of hurting your loved one. Treasure your precious one. Imagine how miracle it is that both of you are acquainted in the vast sea of people & actually fell in love with each others. It's fate. So it, AT THE VERY LEAST, deserves you to redouble your efforts, give a lot of patience & be tolerant to make things work. Don't you think these attempts are actually worthy in order to sustain the relationship? Nothing comes easily after all.



Found these quotes are pretty meaningful.

''真正的爱,是接受,不是忍受;是支持,不是支配;

是慰问,不是质问;真正的爱,要道谢也要道歉。

要体贴,也要体谅。要认错,也好改错;

真正的爱,不是彼此凝视,而是共同沿着同一方向望去。

其实,爱不是寻找一个完美的人。而是,要学会用完美的眼光,欣赏一个并不完美的人。''


Translation:

True love is acceptance, not to bear; is to support, not to dominate;

is sympathy, not to question; true love, not only to express thanks but apologize if needed too.

Be considerate, but also be understanding. Not only to admit mistakes, but correct it as well;

True love is not to gazing each other but work hard to achieve same goals together.

In fact, love is not finding a perfect person. Instead, we must learn that people are perfectly flawed.




And lastly, to those who are single, attached, or heartbroken,

HAPPY VALENTINE DAY! :3

Have a great one!

Who the hell says Valentine must celebrate with your boyfie/girlf?

Friends & family are lovers too <3

I'm in love with my friends & I spent my Valentine with my friends last year!

& it was faboooo!


For my girls:

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot,
who calls you back when you hang up on him,
who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat,
or will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
wait for the boy who kisses your forehead,
who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats,
who holds your hand in front of his friends,
who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on.
One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU.
The one who turns to his friends and says, that's her.


Yours truly.














XOXO! Much lurves, Caryne.

3 comments:

♥ Wynne ♥ said...

what u wrote is so true.
and quite inspiring..
love u, dear! :)

~noty_jimjim~ said...

nice post~~!
Happy Valentine's Day to you and your BF too..
haha
=)

LeneLene said...

Love the quote 爱不是寻找一个完美的人。而是,要学会用完美的眼光,欣赏一个并不完美的人
Hope your had a great valentine's day =)